I am on valium because of a sever vern and axiety attack. he tried zoloft but it made it worse.the dazepam hel?

the zoloft made me shake and i did not have time to experiment with all the different antidepresents. My16 year old daughter suffered a TBI injury from a car wreck in 95 and was in a coma for 3 months. drs. gave no hope. through the grace of God she survived . she had to learn to walk talk eat everything all over again but she made it with side effects of a little unbalance and ataxia. I was put on zoloft years ago and .25 of xanax which i only used to sleep at night. she has a failly good life now .I grad weaned myself off of zoloft and left only the .25 xanax at night . this went on for years. My point is when my back problem happened I crashed . i could not waite for antidepresent experiments I need emid. help so that is why the dazepam. I would like to try an antidepresent again i need a buffer to get past the first side effects and don't want to go through the shaking and crying and nerves again. thats why i was wondering if there is an antidepresent i can take with valium till the antidepresent get pas the first side effects. the dazepam 10 mg a day i break in half and i do ok but I don't have the interests in things i use to.